Quick Tip: Unsubscribe from Email Lists

by Mandi on March 15, 2011

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Quick Tip: Unsubscribe from Email Lists

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Email is an amazing tool, and for someone like me — who hates the phone and uses it only when absolutely necessary — it is a lifeline to the outside world.

But here’s the thing. Email can also be a huge time suck.

The good news is that there are ways to reduce the time you spend processing emails and the stress you feel when you look at your inbox.

The number one way? Just unsubscribe.

Like my decluttering your feed reader post, this one is a bit scary to write as a blogger. There are several thousand of you reading this right now…in your email.

But here’s the thing, if you’re actually reading this email, you probably don’t need to unsubscribe from the daily newsletter (but I’d still understand if you did).

There are emails you should unsubscribe from right away, though:

  • The newsletters you delete without ever opening them. I know you think you’ll read them at some point in the future when you have more time, but realistically, you probably won’t.
  • Notifications that you get that you don’t need. I used to get one from Paypal every time we used our debit card, but I recently took the time to figure out how to turn those off because I don’t need to see them since I check my account regularly and I’m the only one with a card on the account.
  • Sale alerts from retailers. Not only will you save time by not getting them, but you’ll also save money!
  • Social media alerts. There are some notifications I like, like the ones Facebook sends when someone responds to something I’ve said. But there are plenty that I’d rather not get — new Twitter followers, game invites, etc.
  • Service updates. Many times when you subscribe to a service, install a new program or sign up for an online group, you’re automatically added to their emails lists for all kinds of service updates. From a marketing perspective, I understand that these emails are an important way for companies to stay in touch with consumers. From a consumer perspective, though, I just don’t want extra notifications clogging up my inbox, so I opt-out or unsubscribe every time.
  • Forwards and group emails. If you’re brave enough — because it does take same courage — respond to forwards and other group emails and ask the sender to remove you from their email list. If you use your email for business, that makes a perfect excuse; otherwise you may just need to explain that you’re trying to cut back on the number of emails you get.

There’s this feeling we sometimes get, like we might miss something important if we unsubscribe from email lists. But making any decision out of fear — even one as benign as whether to stay subscribed to an email list — is a good way to feel trapped. Even though an email may take only a few seconds to scan and delete, when you get dozens of those emails, the time really starts to add up.

So next time you get an email that you’re tempted to just delete, take an extra second or two to unsubscribe instead. In a few weeks, you’ll find that your email load has lessened considerably, and while it’s won’t bring world peace, it will bring a little bit of inbox peace!

Could you cut your email load by unsubscribing from newsletters, notifications and other alerts?

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  • Berit

    We live in a nice sized house (almost 3000sq ft) on several acres with a small lake. Having all this space is great after living in military housing for years, so I am very thankful. If I were to think about a dream house and location, I would probably move us from Florida to someplace that got all four seasons. (Although a short winter with only a few days of snow would be fine.) Since we would be getting a little snow, a big brick fireplace would be really nice! I also like to entertain & cook so I would love to have my kitchen open into the family room. And … if I get super dreamy … a double oven & two dishwashers ((blushing)). It is a dream after all ;-)

  • http://www.mommymisadventures.com/ Michelle

    I started typing out what my dream home would be and realized that much of my “dream home” is what I already have or could make happen in my current home. That sort of put things in perspective. Although, I would love to be out of my current, crime ridden neighborhood and in a safer area. Oh and have solar panels! That’s a must have in a dream home for me :)

  • Ginghamcherry

    We have been moving around the world for the last 4 years (we are on our 3rd country in that time) and I don’t live in my dream home. It is a lovely home and I have had the luxury of living in enough homes that I really know what I want now. Definitely has to be a New England style home with a basement (I come from Australia and basements are non-existent), open plan kitchen/dining/family room with a white kitchen and soapstone style countertops (no idea if soapstone exists in Australia), big cooking range with a gas cooktop, two ovens, big pantry, you get the drift. Just enough bedrooms for our family. A big verandah to catch the breeze. On a little bit of land so the neighbours aren’t too close. In a town close to my parent’s farm so my kids can enjoy weekends at the farm like I did when I was a kid. Most everything thrifted or handmade. Cosy. Ah, I can feel my vision wrap me in it’s warmth!

  • Calliope (Greece)

    My dream house is an apartment in the centre of a town (the size of…Florence! for example).
    It’d be serene and neutral with long windows, wooden floors, exceptional natural light and within walking proximity to the Uffizi gallery.
    It’d be located in a quiet street near a piazza and when inside all the hustle and bustle of the town would fade.
    It be small, just enough to house my son, my husband, myself and the ever expanding pies of books.
    It’d have a small balcony with a plant or two, my canary and a small table to drink the morning cappuccino.
    That said:
    I live in a 2 storey house in a small sea town in Greece
    The house is newly built and big in what must be the safest (and boringest) neighbourhood in the entire world.
    It boasts big verandas and a garden.
    Anyone with my dream house would care to flip??????

  • Lorraine

    This is a great question. I have a paper on my inspiration wall with examples of what my dream home would be. I really just want something simple. Although I love the house I’m in now, it’s just in the wrong place. Unlike the previous poster, I want to move TO Florida from PA where winters last 9 months. lol. My dream house would be one story, (no stairs to vacuum). The floors in the main areas would be tile. It would have at least one palm tree in the yard. It will be in a quiet neighborhood and it may have a nice view of water. It will have a lanai so the cats cat sit out there and look outside. It will be very comfortable and we will be very happy there. Very simple.

  • http://twitter.com/LivingOrganized Andrea Dekker

    Thanks Mandi…isn’t it wonderful to have your dream home! And while our dream home does need a lot of work yet, I never though we would get it so soon!! {maybe because it isn’t an extravagant dream home}

    So anyway, in a few months my dream home will have wide plank hardwood floors, crisp white trim, neutral walls, a candle in every window, old iron beds, and a chandelier in every room {well, I’m still trying to convince Dave on this one!!}

  • http://twitter.com/LivingOrganized Andrea Dekker

    Thanks Mandi…isn’t it wonderful to have your dream home! And while our dream home does need a lot of work yet, I never though we would get it so soon!! {maybe because it isn’t an extravagant dream home}

    So anyway, in a few months my dream home will have wide plank hardwood floors, crisp white trim, neutral walls, a candle in every window, old iron beds, and a chandelier in every room {well, I’m still trying to convince Dave on this one!!}

  • http://www.itsawahmlife.com Jackie Lee

    These are great tips. It IS really scary to unsubscribe to emails. It’s easy to think you’re going to miss out on something… but I’ll tell you I have unsubbed from a LOT of lists (and to my knowledge) haven’t missed anything I really needed. :)

    • http://yourway.net Mandi @ Life…Your Way

      Chances are you’ll hear about it somewhere if it’s important enough, right?

  • Elizabethrhode

    I do unsubscribe, but I still get some of them! Unsubscribing doesn’t always work. does it? Am I doing something wrong?

    • http://yourway.net Mandi @ Life…Your Way

      If a site is legitimate, unsubscribing absolutely should work. In fact,
      they’re legally required to respect your request. However, there are
      spammers who don’t care about the laws, and trying to unsubscribe from those
      emails probably doesn’t work and may even result in MORE junk email since
      they have confirmation that the email address is actually used. In general,
      unsubscribe from anything you’ve signed up for or a service you’ve used, but
      if you don’t recognize it or it seems fishy, mark it as spam or create a
      filter (if you use Gmail) to automatically send it to the trash.

  • Blaclilac

    I have a junk email account…if it is something I’m not sure about or if I have to put my email address on something I use the junk address!

    • http://yourway.net Mandi @ Life…Your Way

      This is a great suggestion — thanks for sharing!

  • Blaclilac

    Oh yeah…I check it every so often when I have nothing better to do…that way I don’t have to keep messing with them every time I’m in my email :)

  • Anonymous

    I’ve been working on unsubscribing from junk mail! I think one day I unsubscribed from at least 20, and I know there are still more I need to address. It’s amazing how quickly that got out of control.

  • Anonymous

    Unsubbing is so freeing! And turning off notifications is a big key as well. Since I get email on my phone, I don’t want it dinging every time someone follows me on twitter, lol! And another thing, a little off topic, consider your settings on your phone as well. Do you need a full tone when you get a text or email, or just a chirp? Consider changing your ringtones to something you enjoy, and maybe even turn the volume down. Less grating on the nerves!
    Bernice
    Would starting a business help your work/life balance?

    • http://yourway.net Mandi @ Life…Your Way

      I agree with you on notifications. I try to avoid them at all costs!

  • http://www.itsgravybaby.com/ Whitney

    Such a great time for this post. I have been unsubscribing from lists every day this week.

    • http://yourway.net Mandi @ Life…Your Way

      It’s kind of liberating, isn’t it?!

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=1425901378 Mary B. Martin

    My safety net on some items in my email is to filter them to folders. I do like to get sale alerts from a few companies and then when I PLAN to shop I just look in that folder. Works for me.

  • Nelly Ramirez

    i think for me busy feels good, fun and purposeful… relaxed, even. too busy is when we start to forget things, feel run down and the first sign that we listen to is when we don’t have time left to cook for ourselves.

  • http://greenwoodfarms.blogspot.com/ Lisa

    Being busy can be good, but not if it leads to stress. When the activities are no longer fun for everyone and kids start whining and you are harried and hurried then it is too much. I like to plan down time in our busy weeks. Take a night off or a day off every once and a while. Recharge your batteries, relax, do nothing at all. The world does not stop if you do. It is all about balance.

  • Cathy G

    I think if you have a busy lifestyle then to sustain it you have to be well organised and you have to prioritise, and have a simple focus definitely helps with that. I am very busy, I work full time and I am Chair of Governors at my son’s school (a voluntary role but with statutory responsibilities). I love to craft and I like to live in a clean and tidy house, but to maintain some balance we schedule in quality family time (movie nights, camping weekends, lots of walks) and we say no when things are getting are getting too much…

  • Jennifer

    There’s organized busy and crazy busy. I love the first, but in spurts and always avoid the second. Organized busy makes me feel energized, efficient and effective. Then I love to have some days that I just have home stuff to do, can fold the laundry while watching a movie, catch up on some calls, read some e-books, magazines. To avoid crazy busy I have my time organized with an iphone that tells me when I have appointments, things I need to do. I write lists in a planner, keeps meals fairly organized and have downsized in so many areas of our life (and have learned to say no).

  • http://twitter.com/kalynbr00ke Kalyn Comings

    My definition of busy is having to do something every single minute so you can accomplish the items on your to-do list. I have a hard time seeing busy and simple in the same sentence. But that’s just me! If I’m busy, I’m not really energized, I’m more stressed. I like to accomplish things in a more laid back manner.

  • Anonymous

    Some of our best weekends have been full of friends, family time and fun. We’re fortunate to have a stay at home parent, and all pitch in during the week to keep up with chores and errands so that our weekends can be about spending time together. What a difference.

    Our lives are busy, but not in a stressful way. We’re able to find harmony between active fun and time to relax together.

  • Kara

    My passion in life is teaching children to read and a love of reading. If I had more time I would read more for pleasure – ah the love of a good story — instead of for work/parenting support, etc. Work and fun intersect for me in the joy my 2 year old son gets from his favourite books and when he randomly recites lines from a book in a conversation…like when he asked his grandmother if her gum is a ”taste sensation” (from the pigeon eats a hot dog)

  • Anonymous

    I love that you’re saying this. So often, with bloggers and online business owners, you’re told that your first priority is to “build your list.” But seriously, as annoyed as I get with all of these emails that I get (from free ebooks I downloaded, etc.), I’m thinking, “if I have to harass people to make money online, then I never will.” I know how annoying it is to get random generic sales pitches and I know how I just tune it out and let it collect until I *check all* and hit delete. 

    Anyway, I really respect you for writing this, knowing that you are a successful blogger. I might just go subscribe to your daily newsletter. ;)

    • http://lifeyourway.net Mandi @ Life…Your Way

      Thanks, Delina (is that your first name…I’m guessing!) — I appreciate your words of encouragement!

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